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Moving Up the Ranks

Saturday, October 10, 2009 by bob

For those of you that may not know, I have been studying martial arts with Owen and Joshua for approximately 18 months. I started as a 37 year old, humble white belt... and now I am a humble 39 year old orange belt with one green tip. My next promotion will bring me a green belt. My journey will be a long one... hopefully lasting me much of the rest of my life.

My training is very interesting and we all attend a remarkable school that is quite close to our home. The interesting part of my training comes from the fact that most of my peers [and seniors for that matter] are about a third of my age :) This is where the humbleness and humility come in.

The best part is that I am meeting, and becoming friends with some of the finest young men and women our community has to offer. Young individuals with remarkable character and a commitment to keeping themselves healthy, focused and humble as well. It has truly been one of the great things I have been involved with thus far in my llife.

To be very honest, I never really pictured myself as a "world changer" when I was growing up. I really didn't think that 'big' and that 'outside of myself' when it came to those things. What I did picture myself doing, even from a very young age was being involved with my family and being a positive influence with kids in my community. I was drawn to coaching/mentoring even as a very young child, working as a t-ball umpire :)

I truly believe that I CAN be a "world changer" by being available to the kids in my community, not always leading them, but following them as well. This is why I love my martial arts community. I LEARN so much from these kids, it is sometimes an overwhelming flow of emotion. My sons show me that they will soon be very strong and well-centered young men. At the same time, I show myself that I can set goals and work toward them and work on my ability to clear my mind, continue to learn, to teach and to be taught.

I know not many people will read this, but to those that may... just remember that children can teach us everything we need to know to be GREAT adults.. and in return we can let kids know that they can give us that. Show a child some respect with words and actions and it comes back times ten. We all can be world changers with just a little bit of that!

7 comment(s) for “Moving Up the Ranks”

  1. Gravatar of Mrs. Siler
    Mrs. Siler Says:
    Tang Soo Sir!!!!!
    My sons can goof off with you as if you were 10, or 15 but you will always get "Sir" as a response from them. Our Family is blessed to have met you and your family. Karen
  2. Gravatar of Michelle Wegman
    Michelle Wegman Says:
    Wow! I hope a lot of people read this. It is not often enough that we hear good things about our youth. You said it perfectly and it touched me!
  3. Gravatar of Norma Yario
    Norma Yario Says:
    7 years of committment and dedication, yes my son has learned a skill, but the friendships will last lifetime, thanks for the nice comments!!!, it means alot to a parent.
  4. Gravatar of Russ Mellnick
    Russ Mellnick Says:
    As a father of a black belt from Mike Neil
    Traditional Marital Arts the lessons they learn will go with them for many many years. The kicking and punching are tools for the lesson that is really being taught. As for us old folks our grandmas would tell us good manners will take you a long way.
    Keep up the good work.
  5. Gravatar of M.T. Neil
    M.T. Neil Says:
    Bob,
    Your sons have what every successful child in the martial arts has: a parent that has identified the benefits of of this training and committed themselves (and their child) to it. These are indeed great children, awesome instructors, and committed parents - partnering together, much to the benefit of all.
    Continued success.
  6. Gravatar of bob
    bob Says:
    wow, this wins for most comment posts ever on this little blog :P thanks to everyone for their kind and encouraging words. Looking forward to a great future with all these wonderful young people!
  7. Gravatar of inwaladrabona
    inwaladrabona Says:
    It looks like you are a true professional. Did you study about the topic? *lol*

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